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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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In The Politricks of Fuck YouPublish DateAugust 16, 2023Leave a comment Ami Tamakloe

I want you…to dominate me.  Take complete control over my body. My spirit. My soul even. I want you…to dominate me. In sexual …sensual excitement. In pleasure. I beg you, take over my being.  Hold your thumb over my arms.  Let my body stretch across your palm and my legs wrap around your pinky.  And when it is time to submit. To me.  Let me…no bless yourself.  With me.  Bless yourself with the chance to see.  What pleasure… true…holistic pleasure …

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<strong>A Domme’s Last Farewell</strong>

A Domme’s Last Farewell

In General IssuesPublish DateDecember 30, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I was incredibly stressed. Everything was going according to schedule but every time I looked around I couldn’t help but notice things that were not as perfect as I imagined. Chairs weren’t sitting right. I hadn’t …

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Switching (Part 5)

Switching (Part 5)

In Erotica, General Issues, LesbianPublish DateDecember 12, 20222 Comments Delasi Sanenu

She lowers her head and I shut my eyes as she kisses me, tenderly this time. I kiss her back. She pulls back and whispers against my mouth, her forehead against mine. “You finally stopped thinking.” …

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Switching (Part 4)

Switching (Part 4)

In Erotica, General Issues, LesbianPublish DateDecember 9, 20221 Comment Delasi Sanenu

She held my hand and then led me in the direction of what I assumed was the bedroom. It turned out it wasn’t. It was the bathroom. She shed her clothes and asked me to do …

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Switching (Part 3)

Switching (Part 3)

In Erotica, General Issues, LesbianPublish DateDecember 6, 20221 Comment Delasi Sanenu

The rest of the week went by without her coming on to me or anything. I didn’t avoid her but I also didn’t try to get close to her or anything. It was Friday and we …

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Switching (Part 2)

Switching (Part 2)

In Erotica, General Issues, LesbianPublish DateDecember 5, 20221 Comment Delasi Sanenu

I am a control freak. It’s one of the reasons I don’t have a boyfriend. I tend to intimidate the guys I date. I try to be weak and needy but it’s just not me. I …

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BDSM Doesn’t Work For Me. What Else Is Hot?

BDSM Doesn’t Work For Me. What Else Is Hot?

In All Categories, SexualityPublish DateMarch 17, 20222 Comments Guest

Here’s the thing: polar hierarchies in sex don’t interest me. At all. I find nothing remotely desirable about being dominated or dominating someone else, mimicking rape or coercion, being hit or whipped. It’s not because I …

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A Letter of Desire

A Letter of Desire

In All Categories, General IssuesPublish DateAugust 31, 2020Leave a comment Guest

Dear lover,  There are things I want you to do to me, but I cannot say them. If you’re reading this, I want you to know that my life is hard. I cannot be in charge …

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Rape Fantasy – The Need for New Terminology  By OLUKO

Rape Fantasy – The Need for New Terminology By OLUKO

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 1, 20191 Comment Guest

I was 17 years old the first time I heard the word rape in relation to sexual violation. Before this, rape was the spinach-like vegetable that I ate as a child in Zambia – which I …

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‘Orgasms or Bust’ by Guest Contributor Double Aunt Andre

‘Orgasms or Bust’ by Guest Contributor Double Aunt Andre

In Bisexual, Heterosexual, Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 12, 20158 Comments Adventures Staff

Top 5 things that run through my mind during sex (if I think them all simultaneously, it’s really bad): (He is going down on me) Why does this remind me of a carwash every time? They …

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50 Shades of Black

50 Shades of Black

In Creative Non Fiction, HeterosexualPublish DateJuly 20, 201325 Comments Ekuba

When I met Tony, I never thought that our relationship would take the deliciously dark twist it later took. I’ve always loved good boys. The quickest way a man can get to my heart is by …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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