On Thursday afternoon you have a get together with old friends from boarding school. Girls to women, you’ve grown. They’re at your apartment. You tried to catch up. It’s been at least 4 years since you’ve met either one though you still send the occasional message on WhatsApp. As has been the case lately, conversations turn to relationships; they envy you your independence but not so much the work and lonely lifestyle required to maintain it, ensure that you can …
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I agreed to meet him that day to say yes. Yes I’ll date him. I was tired of waiting for the right one or liking the ones who never reciprocated. So when we met, at a …
Certain words flow in vein with the term virgin; naïve, unadulterated, pure, immature, wet-behind-the-ears etc. None of these words would appropriately describe me. I don’t need to be told not to drink in the company of …
Till this day I can hold a book (whether novel or guide) or a movie (be it a romantic comedy or those XXX demos) as responsible for most of what I know on the topic of …
I was hungry that afternoon and the house was devoid of food. Save for the half bag of rice and the tins of oats, nothing was in the kitchen. Even if I were to decide to …
I’m a born again virgin. Well that’s how my friend E described me a few weeks ago ‘cos I seem to be going through the longest sexual drought that I have ever experienced. Now I’m very …
This is a message I received recently from Ms E: “…Nana…I have a problem and i really need your help. I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past three years and we haven’t …
I am a sexually experienced woman who has had her fair share of sexual partners. I’m lucky to be able to say that most of it has been great sex. But it hasn’t always been that …
I am a virgin, always have been, and will hopefully (cross my fingers and pray fervently!) not always remain so. When I was growing up, the sole purpose of my virginity was my religion – good …
The recent conversations on visits to the Ob/Gyn have somehow led to the subject of virginity and associated issues such as, who is a virgin? Someone who has never had sex? Someone whose hymen is intact …