“Invite Mansa to that event you go to regularly,” said my friend Kojo to me via DM (direct message facility on twitter). She’s just moved back and wants to meet some new people. “Sure”, I responded. …
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A girls virginity is something to be treasured right? (well that’s what they say anyway). People build such anticipation for that first time you give yourself to someone. Will you enjoy it? Will it be painful? …
I’ve just been counselling my friend about her relationship over BBM. She loves her man, he loves her but they keep arguing over small things. They have had long conversations about ‘it’. They know it’s fundamentally …
It started innocently enough. Drinking games on a summer afternoon. A group of young ladies cackling about, men, education, boys, friends, fellas, holiday drunkenness and of course men. Hours passed and when the sun disappeared so …
On a bumpy flight from Cape Town to Johannesburg a week ago, whilst reading magazines, drinking wine and reading those (sometimes) ridiculous polls that mainstream women’s magazines have from time to time, my friend Crystal (Publisher …
Until 2 months before my 23rd birthday I had never had sex. Despite all the rumours that had floated around me in Form 3 when my bosoms had suddenly blossomed, or the time that my boyfriend …
Last week my bestie (not #BFFFL) and I bought these rings on Long Street in Cape Town. She picked her ring initially and showed it to me. My instinctive response was to say, ‘Oh no that …
Kojo: You’re usually first to cum, aren’t you? Nana Darkoa: Where is this coming from? Kojo: Oh oh! Nana Darkoa::). Why ‘oh oh’? I’m curious about the genesis of the question Kojo:Eish, the genesis of the …
I’m writing right now at the Cape Town International Convention Centre in South Africa, and thinking ahead to a plenary I will be participating in tomorrow morning. The plenary is on the topic of ‘The Politics …
Yes ladies, we’re going there today! It’s the thing that everyone does but hates to talk about and I’m not referring to farting 🙂 Ok, I agree- not everyone does it. Take my big sister for …