Written by Bùnmi. The first time I felt shame about the fact that I masturbate is when I heard a group of pastors that came to my secondary school to evangelize condemn it as a sin. They gave vivid descriptions of hellfire and how it is waiting for sinners, especially masturbators. I was scared and I also felt ashamed. I was pretty naive then and thus easily coerced, so, hearing their words made me think of myself as a dirty, …
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If this world made sense, I’d probably always walk around without a shirt. I’ve known this since I was old enough to take off my own clothes. I enjoy the feel of my skin against my …
Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply …
Written by Miss Kay You are probably wondering why I ghosted. Well, you had it coming. I did not know how to say this without hurting your feelings. But, here is why I left. When we …
I am almost running to my place when I get off the train, hoping my housemates are home to help me unpack the dilemma I am in. I am not naïve enough to think Prof had …
Written by Nina I was high that day and extremely horny, so I decided to call him. He picked at the 3rd ring. “Hello?” I don’t know what I expected, but he didn’t sound even the …
“I hate this bureaucratic shit.” The woman in the booth next to me turns her face towards me in reaction. Embarrassed, I turned my body inwards and away from her, wondering how long I’d been talking …
You make me want to be brave. Brave like – Let’s fuck-this-shit snap and fall in love with each other. I need to pause now to let the fear wash all over me. Fall in Love …
Just over two months ago, my three-year-old relationship came to an end. Or more accurately, I ended the partnership I had been in. It wasn’t an easy decision to make. We had been planning a future …
Nana, can you imagine that Auntie Rose came to town today? It’s the worst possible timing. I am flying tomorrow to Berlin to meet up with Kofi. I am desperate for some good action and now …
I doubt I’d had that much sex in my life. I doubt I know myself fully. I cried a couple of times with my ex. I cried through those moments of intense whatever it is I …