I received the email below from Yaw a few days ago: Hi, I need help or sound advice. A lady introduced me to licking when i wanted to have sex with her as the key to the vagina. Seriously, i enjoyed it but she was the only person i had this experience with. Years down the line we broke up and i met another lady, when we got home and we were about to have sex i had a change of mind immediately because of the bad odour that emanated from ...  [Read more]

See there is nothing as earth-shattering as those sacred moments when you are wrapped in the smell and the wetness of another woman's pussy. You- all tongue and yearning, her- all moans of 'yes' and 'don't stop'.... But it never begins right there . If you want to feel a woman coming like a waterfall on your face you need to take your time. You need to begin when she is fully clothed and not even thinking about making love. She could be at ...  [Read more]

Don’t even know how I got orally fixated That’s my current affliction, I’m crazily addicted Just dying for the dangerous tongue tricks I’d kill for those clit licks It was you doing the chasing at first, just to put it  on me Now I’m the one doing the begging, “baby please give it to me” Can you hear me moan baby, can you hear my sighs Even as your head is buried in between my luscious thighs I know youre ...  [Read more]

We sat in the car, he reached for my head, pulled me closer and kissed me again. He didn't want to stop, I was enjoying it; felt the wetness in my special lady parts *yes kissing gets me there. Good kissing ooo not just anything*. I felt his deep aroused breath as he leaned in more for the kiss. He reached around my short dress *yes it made me easy to access, no I no sheda wear am ;)*. The good girl in me, who has been virtually stifled these ...  [Read more]

Ah. So here's the guy you've got: he's up for trying anything. Seems self explanatory right? I don't think you understand. Your man will try anything! He is willing to explore with you. Congratulations! All those fantasies you have, you can act them out. Just remember that the operative word is 'try'. If he doesn't want to or like it, there is no need to push the issue. You'll only drive him into mouth of someone else. For this guy, allow ...  [Read more]

For the purpose of this article, I'm going to divide men into three groups; the Normal guy, the Open-to-Trying guy and the Badass. You know into which your man falls so act accordingly. Please note, it's not always easy to get a man to jump categories if he does not show the desire to do so himself, so save yourself a lot of heartache and just find the man that suits you.   1) The basic/normal guy: This guy enjoys a good fellating ...  [Read more]

The first step in having a truly appreciative 'cunnilingual' experience - as in most things concerning women - is in the mind.  You have to stop. Just stop. Stop thinking about how many women your partner has been with, stop thinking about whether your period is due, stop thinking about how to fake an arch of the back so that your stomach seems flatter than it is, stop wondering if you should turn off the lights, if you're too loud, whether ...  [Read more]

For some reason just started thinking about all the different types of sex one can have. Here’s what comes to mind, I will start with the obvious ones... • Vaginal sex • Oral sex • Anal Sex • Dry Humping • Tantric Sex • No Sex (does that qualify?) Surely there must be more...your ...  [Read more]

I find it interesting that the articles that inspired me to write this post both focussed on how much women love to receive oral sex - that a man is not a man if he doesn’t “lick her till Tomorrow comes”. As far as I’m concerned, yes oral sex is nice, but trust me, if your woman doesn’t know how to enjoy receiving oral sex, you might as well be licking a money’s ass because I can bet you my puny Ministry salary that she’ll be ...  [Read more]

Just saw a Gillette video which demonstrates how men should shave their balls and it got me thinking about my own relationship with pubic hair. Seriously, it’s constantly (okay, maybe not that constantly) on my mind. At the moment I favour trimming my pubes with scissors and a small comb (I have locs so if you see a comb on my dresser you know what it’s used for. I keep having to tell people, erm you may not want to use that comb...) ...  [Read more]