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Posts Tagged ‘dick’

Published on: 28 December 2012 by in Heterosexual
Friday, December 28th, 2012

We sat in the car, he reached for my head, pulled me closer and kissed me again. He didn't want to stop, I was enjoying it; felt the wetness in my special lady parts *yes kissing gets me there. Good kissing ooo not just anything*. I felt his deep aroused breath as he leaned in more for the kiss. He reached around my short dress *yes it made me easy to access, no I no sheda wear am ;)*. The good girl in me, who has been virtually stifled these ...  [Read more]

Published on: 20 July 2012 by in General Issues, Relationships
Friday, July 20th, 2012

How does one cultivate a coticulturist? Are they born or created? I am not sure. I didn’t become a coticulturist because I was thinking about this stuff. You might say I started thinking about this stuff because  I was trying to understand my coticulturism. When I think back on it I do realize that I was never taught to think of dicks as something scary that would bite me. I was never taught to think of them as this thing that wanted ...  [Read more]

Published on: 09 July 2012 by in General Issues
Monday, July 9th, 2012

I had a dream that I recently met a fellow coticulturist. She reached out to me after my ode to dicks and told me that she stays in the closet about her love for penises because loving penises is a delicate matter. I related to what she said. Loving penises is a delicate matter. You can’t talk too much about it because, once you do, people misinterpret your loving penises to mean that you desire every penis, interact with them all ...  [Read more]

Published on: 23 March 2011 by in General Issues, Sex Research
Wednesday, March 23rd, 2011

I spent the last 15 minutes trying to find a nice witty quote about size that I could use as an intro to this post on penis size. I found two that were quite apt: -        “It isn't by size that you win or fail -- be the best of whatever you are”,  as said by Douglas Malloch (as should be noted by the men!) ; and -        "The best we can do is size up the chances, calculate the risks involved, estimate our ability to ...  [Read more]

Published on: 29 August 2009 by in General Issues
The African Man: Hang like a Horse?
Saturday, August 29th, 2009

So, I was hanging out at Aylos Bay, Akosombo, Ghana yesterday and saw this "art" outside the men's room...I did hunt around in vain for one for the women but to no avail... Isn't the depiction of the African man "hang like a horse" a myth with almost, if not explicit, racist connotations? Your ...  [Read more]

Published on: 25 January 2009 by in General Issues
Sunday, January 25th, 2009

We decided that since neither of us had encountered every penis on the planet (and who would want to?) it might be a good idea to do susu with our experiences and put them in one pot for all to share. Dicks are a lot like men: There are short ones, long ones, big ones small ones, uncircumcised ones, half circumcised ones…dicks that inspire “ahh’s!!” and some that elicit an unimpressed “oh.”You get the drift.I’ll share my ...  [Read more]

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